I Want to File for Divorce. Where Do I Start?

Episode Summary:

In this episode, longtime family law attorney and divorce coach Patricia Sokolich walks women through the very first steps of divorce. From recognizing the signs it may be time to leave, to gathering the right financial documents, to understanding mediation and custody evaluations, Patricia explains how proper preparation can make all the difference. She shares practical advice for women who feel ready to move forward but don’t know where or how to begin.

Key Timestamps:

01:40 – Signs it may be time to consider divorce
04:30 – Why you shouldn’t rush to hire a lawyer immediately
06:15 – The financial documents every woman should gather
09:50 – How a divorce coach helps you prepare for custody evaluations
12:30 – Mediation: benefits, risks, and what to know before agreeing
16:00 – Finding the right attorney and knowing your end goals

About the Show:

By Your Side: Divorce Law and Support is a podcast for women navigating the uncertainty of divorce. Hosted by Patricia Sokolich, a family law attorney with more than 30 years of experience and a certified divorce coach, the show blends legal insight with compassionate guidance. Each episode offers practical tools on financial preparation, custody considerations, and choosing the right attorney—while also addressing the emotional challenges of leaving a marriage. Whether you’re just beginning to wonder if divorce is right for you, preparing for mediation, or rebuilding afterward, this show provides clarity, confidence, and support every step of the way.